Thursday, April 23, 2009

Funny Dating Questions

To me, humor is a essential part of dating. Especially girls tend to rate 'good sense of humor', as a very important factor in a date. So if you really want to make a good impression, on your date, you need to bring the funny. These, funny dating question, should help you to get some giggles and improve the overall dating conversation.

1. You need to set this question up a bit. Tell them that it may seem a little odd, but it's very important to you.
Do you stir your coffee clockwise or counter clockwise?
Then when they answer, look sad and say: The right answer was: I only drink tea.

2. What is your stance on cannibalism? For or against.
Take care with this question; it can end a date quickly, if they donĂ¢€™t have a dark sense of humor.

3. How do you feel about the use of fertility drugs and the instances where people have had 3 or more babies, after using the treatment?
This is a bit of a trick question. It opens the door to finding out whether they are interested in a large family or not.

4. If you where an alien, with your very own spaceship and you could abduct anyone on earth. Who would you abduct and why.

5. If you where a bird, what type of bird would you be?

6. Chunky or smooth?
This goes to their preference in peanut butter type.

7. If you could have any type of pet, what would it be?
This question test creativity and tells you whether they love animals or not.

8. Why is sex so sexy and how can you make sex even sexier?
This question is loaded to get them thinking about sex.

9. Why don't they make bullet proof pants?

10. What gets bigger the more you take away?
The answer is a hole.

11. How does the guy who drives the snow plow get to work?

12. If you could be stuck on a desert island with anyone, who would you pick.

13. Why don't sheep shrink in the rain?

14. Why is the time of day with the slowest traffic called rush hour?

15. If I was hanging over an active valcano, would you run in and save me.
With this question you want to see how sweet they can be.

16. Do you live to work or work to live?
Gets you into the whole job topic.

As you can tell from these funny dating questions, they are more than just light entertainment. The questions can be used to open tricky dating topics like religion, sex whether they are looking for a short or long term relationship and so on.

You also need to know that not all the questions are suitable for all dates. Some of these funny dating questions could offend your date. So, you need to match the questions to the phase of the relationship and the personality of the person whom you are dating.

Monday, April 20, 2009

Question Ideas for Speed Dating

So you have decided to give speed dating a try. Good for you, speed dating can be a lot of fun and you may very well find mister or misses right while speed dating.

Clearly it’s a bit of a different deal than with normal dating. You have a very short time to figure out whether someone is worth the time and effort or not. We will give you a couple of good speed dating questions. Which questions you use depends on which characteristics are most important in to you in your dating life.

tip: Remember to smile and stay confident during the whole process.

Try to have follow up question ready. If he or she answers a question in a certain way a follow up question can steer the conversation in the right direction.

Here are some question ideas for speed dating, which can help you make the right picks.
1. Where are you from? Nice soft question to start off with.
2. Do you work to live or live to work? They will need to think about this one, and it can give you an idea of their work situation.
3. Do you believe in the love at first sight?
4. If you where stuck on a desert island and you could take one item with you, what would it be?
5. Which is your possession plus appraisal and why?
6. What is your favorite time of year and why?
7. Of what religion are you?
8. What’s your favorite band/song?
9. What do you look for in a girlfriend/boyfriend? Tells you something about your compatibility.
10. What is the most important factor in a healthy relationship?
11. Do you have a big family and what is your relationship with them like? How they relate to their family gives you clues as to how they will treat you, in the long run.
12. Which is the last book which you read?
13. If you could have lunch with any person, the life or deceased, which it would be and why?
14. How do you like to spend your free time? Always nice if you share interests.
15. Have you ever been married?
16. What do you hate most puppies or kittens? Shows off your sense of humor.
17. Do you pursue the policy? Are you considered a republican, Democrat or affiliated with another party?
18. What is your dream career?

Hopefully these question ideas for speed dating will help you come up with a few questions of your own.

Try not to give up, if your first attempt at speed dating doesn’t go well. Remember there is someone for everyone out there. So keep trying, until you find that special person. Speed dating is all about going through large numbers of people to increase your chances of success.

Question Ideas for Speed Dating was written by James Kruger.

Monday, April 6, 2009

Why Girlfriends Cheat

Statistically men are slightly more likely to cheat on their girlfriends, than girls on their man. With men it's 40 to 50% while with women it's 35 to 40%, these are from long term couples - 6 months and more. That is a significant number of women cheating.

Knowing why girlfriends cheat on their guys, is the first step to spotting the problem early and fixing it, before the relationship fails.

  • Just not getting the attention she wants - Girls require a certain amount of attention. If, she feels she is being ignored by you, she may seek that attention elsewhere. Filling the need can be as easy as occasionally complimenting her, on how nice she looks, or helping her out with a small problem.

  • Money - If a guy starts buying her nice things and taking her to expensive places, a girl's head can be turned.

    If you can't afford to spend that kind of money, there is nothing you can do. Just start looking for a less material girl.

  • Bad Sex - Turns out this is a major reason why girlfriends cheat to. You might not be bad in the bedroom, she might just be bored with you. Fortunately with some research and effort you can improve quite a bit. If, you try something new, remember to ask for feedback and suggestions.

  • She's not sure whether you love her or not - If women don't feel that they have love, they may go outside the relationship and look for it. To counter this you need to keep telling her that you love her as well as make occasional tokens, of that love.

  • Self esteem problems - Some girls just have issues with self esteem. Making her feel valued and needed is different from giving her attention and making her feel loved.

    The most graphic example of this, I have experienced, was once when my girlfriend cooked us a "special dinner". Now she has many skills but cooking isn't one of them. You still need to make her feel useful, even if she can't cook to save her life.

  • She's a pathological cheater - Some people just cheat. No matter how good things are they will always have someone on the side. Don't walk away from her, run.

Hopefully this article has helped answer the question: Why do girlfriends cheat? and hopefully you can use this to bring you and your girl closer together.